Michael Kogan-White, M.A.

Michael Kogan-White, M.A.

Licensed Psychologist

I am the owner and director of Cornerstone. I have over 40 years of experience providing therapy and counseling to men, individually, in groups and in couples sessions. I have 30 years of experience working with men who struggle with compulsive/addictive cyber sexual and sexual behaviors of all kinds. I have helped hundreds of men overcome sexual problems, relationship problems, depression, shame, trauma, anxiety, and codependency.

I am empathic and try to be as in tune as possible with my clients’ feelings and needs. I am committed to helping men rewrite their life stories so that they feel more authentic, honest, confident, competent, self-assured and self-accepting in their lives. I have worked with men from all backgrounds, ages, religions, political preferences, sexual orientations, and economic classes. I believe that men want to feel good about themselves and confident that they are living up to their core values.

Clients describe me as insightful, compassionate, caring and humorous. They feel that I understand and empathize with them very deeply and help them resolve their issues no matter how complicated or deep their issues may be. I help men put the puzzle of their lives together so they can choose how to feel, think and behave instead of feeling like their lives are out of control.

I’m retired and not accepting any new clients.


1600 University Avenue West,
Suite 314
St. Paul, MN 55104


Therapy Models
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Eclectic Therapy
  • EMDR
  • Family Systems Therapy
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Gottman Method of Couples Therapy
  • Hypnosis and Guided Imagery
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Imago Relationship Therapy
  • Integrative Therapy
  • Interpersonal Therapy
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Person Centered Therapy
  • Pesso Boyden Psychomotor Trauma Therapy
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychosynthesis
  • Reality Therapy
Primary Specialties
  • Sex and cybersex addiction
  • Relationship and marital difficulties
  • Infidelity
  • Codependency and boundaries
  • Family of origin dysfunction
  • Trauma and PTSD
Other Specialties
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Work and Career Issues
  • Divorce
  • High Conflict Divorce
  • Life Transitions
  • Men’s issues
  • Sexual abuse of men as boys
  • Stress
  • Aetna
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Blue Plus
  • Blue Advantage
  • Cigna
  • Health Partners
  • Preferred One
  • Medica and UHC
  • Out of network
  • UCare

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